A Freebie Worthy of Deebye

[ShadowHM]

Shadow, I only have one thing I want to address from your post. Mistakes. This is not directed at you per say, but an expansion on something you briefly touched on. Mistakes MUST be made. Going to a marriage specialist is all fine and good... But to much is a bad thing. It's sort of like putting antibiotics over everything and allowing the bugs to build up a resistant nature. Same is true with marriage. You got to have the little snags and sort them out properly on your own. And you must take the time to do it right. Having somebody sort all of your problems out for you will only screw you over long term as the super-problem quietly builds in the background, resistant to all efforts. Steam must be blown off.

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Amen to that. :) At best, a marriage councillor is going to help you learn how to deal with getting along together. They certainly cannot 'decide' anything for you.

To remain somewhat on subject, the best sort of sex is makeup sex.

:D The best sort of sex is regular sex with your beloved, in all the fine variations it can have. Tender sex, hurried sex, leisurely sex, surprised-by-lust sex, makeup sex, morning sex, wake-up-horny-in-the-night sex, make-an-appointment-because-life-got-too-busy-all-of-a-sudden sex... The list is long, but the ties that bind you to each other are strengthened every time.