A Freebie Worthy of Deebye

[Doc]

Most of my questions are loaded questions. I intend them to be. I desire to challenge the reader to do a little something called thinking. I salute you for realising the depth of my questioning. You deserve a cookie Jahcs. You are a clever human being with a good deal of insight. I shall watch you more closely in the future with a wary eye, and will have to be more careful around you. You have my sincere respect. Some people were, hrm, to snowed by the graphic nature of my questioning and could not see the forest for the trees. In the end, you must ask your self the question, and the answer lies somewhere between one's own ears. I reveal to much of my own inner workings. Blah. Occhi frusterated me a great deal by dancing around the issue and avoiding the woods altogether. I hate it when he does that. I think his Rogue senses assist him in avoiding snares. At times I want to tear my beard out.

That was the point with the feather vs the whole ostrich. It has been summed up already, but it is still a good point to drive home, because some people may have missed it somehow. We should all sit down some time and examine our selves and find out what our feathers and our ostriches are. Brian could spend a whole lot of time doing this... And so could many others. I have found that the world is seldom black or white. When you step back from the little details and examine the picture as a whole, it's a big grey area at best with just a few defining spots here and there. People spend to much time worrying about right or wrong and nitpicking the little details. It tangles up their lives. Do whatever it takes to achieve the greater good in the long term and let the details take care of themselves. In time, nobody will remember the details, only the results. I have debated this endlessly with Sirian, and I have no desire to go into it here to that sort of depth.

Shadow, I only have one thing I want to address from your post. Mistakes. This is not directed at you per say, but an expansion on something you briefly touched on. Mistakes MUST be made. Going to a marriage specialist is all fine and good... But to much is a bad thing. It's sort of like putting antibiotics over everything and allowing the bugs to build up a resistant nature. Same is true with marriage. You got to have the little snags and sort them out properly on your own. And you must take the time to do it right. Having somebody sort all of your problems out for you will only screw you over long term as the super-problem quietly builds in the background, resistant to all efforts. Steam must be blown off. To remain somewhat on subject, the best sort of sex is makeup sex.

Now, Jahcs, will you please spin the wheel of fish for us.