04-06-2004, 08:38 PM
Hello, just thought I'd chip in here. I'm fairly new to the Lounge, and haven't been involved in too much on-line discussion for nearly ten years. However, what I have seen recently makes me want to reply.
First, never underestimate the power of human stupidity. There will always be individuals who can have the rules branded into their skins with red-hot irons, and still be unable to follow them. This is an unfortunate fact of nature.
Second, most communities are to some extant self-governing. If a certain type of behavior is unacceptable to the general populace, their displeasure will make itself felt. Whether this be by teasing, sarcasm, flaming or even banning, it will occur. Having the rules clearly posted merely makes certain that those who go to the effort of reading understand the playing field upon which they find themselves. Those that don't read them (rules), have only themselves to blame.
Finally, regarding a cooling off period. I think it's unnecessary. Those that engage in worthwhile contribution will be encouraged by the reactions received. Those that don't, won't. Having spent several weeks lurking at this and other forums, I came to understand the atmosphere of this community from the nature of the posts made. Maybe that's just because I know how to read.
Anyone that wishes to participate in ANY group activity should take it upon themselves to OBSERVE the rules of social contact and interaction demonstrated by the group they wish to join. Those that don't, obviously do not have the social maturity necessary to participate in reasoned discourse. And should avoid doing so.
Just my $.02
kRAYt
First, never underestimate the power of human stupidity. There will always be individuals who can have the rules branded into their skins with red-hot irons, and still be unable to follow them. This is an unfortunate fact of nature.
Second, most communities are to some extant self-governing. If a certain type of behavior is unacceptable to the general populace, their displeasure will make itself felt. Whether this be by teasing, sarcasm, flaming or even banning, it will occur. Having the rules clearly posted merely makes certain that those who go to the effort of reading understand the playing field upon which they find themselves. Those that don't read them (rules), have only themselves to blame.
Finally, regarding a cooling off period. I think it's unnecessary. Those that engage in worthwhile contribution will be encouraged by the reactions received. Those that don't, won't. Having spent several weeks lurking at this and other forums, I came to understand the atmosphere of this community from the nature of the posts made. Maybe that's just because I know how to read.
Anyone that wishes to participate in ANY group activity should take it upon themselves to OBSERVE the rules of social contact and interaction demonstrated by the group they wish to join. Those that don't, obviously do not have the social maturity necessary to participate in reasoned discourse. And should avoid doing so.
Just my $.02
kRAYt
"People are strange, when you're a stranger." J. Morrison