10-31-2003, 10:26 PM
I'm reminded of that old saying, "To know me is to love me." Other than in some extraordinary cases where looks, hormones, and circumstances offer us examples of "love at first sight", "love" takes time to develop. So I would play it cool, work on your friendship -- in fact, focus only on that. Then, also, you can work on yourself. Have confidence in who and what you are, but be willing to improve. How can you become more loveable? Be a better friend? Be a better man?
If you are already the bomb, and she don't see it, then move on. In fact, if I remember back to those days, the less I tried the more women were attracted to me. This one time in college, I was talking to this girl after class about physics, and she just up and kissed me. She was pretty, and guys were always fawning over her. I was one of the rare ones who just talked to her as a human being. I guess she liked that.
If you are already the bomb, and she don't see it, then move on. In fact, if I remember back to those days, the less I tried the more women were attracted to me. This one time in college, I was talking to this girl after class about physics, and she just up and kissed me. She was pretty, and guys were always fawning over her. I was one of the rare ones who just talked to her as a human being. I guess she liked that.
”There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy." - Hamlet (1.5.167-8), Hamlet to Horatio.
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