10-31-2003, 06:26 PM
That feeling you get in the bottom of your stomach when your pulse races and your eyes dilate when you see this person... this is lust. Unless your willing to die for this person and give UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, then its only a phase. Sorry to break it to you :P . The Greek language best describes love in five different ways:
Aros - Erotic love
Philo - Brotherly love
Agape - Unconditional Love
... :( oh crap... Mind having a complete blank-out. Oh well. I'm sure this isin't what you want to hear, but desite that nagging feeling in your heart telling you this is for real and not the same feeling you get when you look at nudie magazines or in the girls locker-room, I'd place your feelings for this person in the Aros category of love, and until you honestly know how she feels about you, your feelings are only betraying yourself. Take a chance and ask her if she'd like to spend some time with you. Once you get to know her, then you can surmise rather it is really love or not :D .
Aros - Erotic love
Philo - Brotherly love
Agape - Unconditional Love
... :( oh crap... Mind having a complete blank-out. Oh well. I'm sure this isin't what you want to hear, but desite that nagging feeling in your heart telling you this is for real and not the same feeling you get when you look at nudie magazines or in the girls locker-room, I'd place your feelings for this person in the Aros category of love, and until you honestly know how she feels about you, your feelings are only betraying yourself. Take a chance and ask her if she'd like to spend some time with you. Once you get to know her, then you can surmise rather it is really love or not :D .
"The true value of a human being is determined primarily by the measure and the sense in which he has attained liberation from the self." -Albert Einsetin