06-17-2008, 05:49 AM
Quote:So I feel left waiting again, but I love this girl.
As usual in most relationships, communication is key. If I were you, I'd tell her how you feel and that you find her physically attractive and would like to take your relationship with her to the next level. Be honest, but willing to listen to her concerns and not blow her off, but at the same time, be sure to stress where you imagine the relationship going in the future.
If you don't tell her how you feel inside, chances are she'll think your uninterested and move on, especially if she's ready to have a child. It's not so much about "stepping up to the plate", that mentality is so barbaric; it's about being honest with one another and being comfortable enough to express your feelings to one another. What type of relationship would you have if you couldn't do a simple thing like that? Not one worth staying in, that's for sure.
Just my 2-cents.
"The true value of a human being is determined primarily by the measure and the sense in which he has attained liberation from the self." -Albert Einsetin