07-25-2005, 04:00 PM
LochnarITB,Jul 24 2005, 06:43 PM Wrote:With the quality of players we are bleeding, has any real attempt been first made to raid with these guilds, on a regular non-trial basis, wearing the Lurker tabard?
Loch, you should know as well as I how absurd such a thing is. Most guilds would laugh at such a suggestion; there's no reason to take people who aren't part of their system when there are plenty of people who aren't requesting special treatment who want to go into the guild.
But I take exception to "tearing the Lurkers apart". Guild tag does not a Lurker make, or Mongo wouldn't be a Lurker right now either.
Quote:It may be said that I, and others, take this too personally. It is personal. We have all spent a lot of time together. Now we find out that we're just not good enough for you and that you hung out with us until something better came along. Bah!
I can't speak for Arethor and Flyn, but I know I've been turning down invitations from raiding guilds from as early as January when I wasn't even 60 yet. I have been invited many, many times and always said no, I'm happy where I am, even when I haven't been. I have been more than simply loyal, even though there hasn't been much reason to be. So it isn't a matter of something better coming along: something better came along, stopped for tea, visited a few times, inquired about my well-being, and finally gave me a place to stay when I decided I wanted to move on.
And don't minimize just how hard it was to make the decision to change guilds. It was terrifying, agonizing, and painful, however much I knew I wanted it. Without a doubt, the hardest decision I've ever had to make in the game. Above all, it wasn't casual, or ill-considered, like you imply.