How kind is "too kind"?

[LochnarITB]

Don't expect others to respect your property -- most don't even take care of their own.

--Pete
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That is what I have always believed. I find that a person's things say a lot about the person. I am not saying that more or better things make a better person. Whether a person has a lot or a little, the way they treat their things says much about how they treat the rest of the world.

And to your original question, Ducky. I think you went above and beyond. If it was me, first offense, of any kind, would have been a warning. On the second, the goodies would have been tucked away for use by the person I knew would take care of them, me. You should feel no guilt in saying what you wanted to say. It sounds as if they have pushed the situation beyond the point you should be concerned with offending them.