11-20-2008, 12:49 PM
Ok, I'll offer a suggestion. When my wife and I were first thrown together by Shoju and his wife (at the time girlfriend), we had our first date by going and playing mini golf (or putt putt or whatever it's called where you are) and went to a decent sit down dinner. Bear in mind that we are really blue collar so sit down for us was a trip to Applebee's. Regardless, the whole event gave us a chance to get to know each other.