A Freebie Worthy of Deebye

[Occhidiangela]

My personal opinion on sex: It should never be regarded as casual.

"Too casual" boils down to masturbating with someone else's body.(May as well stick to the ostrich feather in that case :w00t: ) You make love with someone, not to someone. Well, that's how I see it.

Sex can be quiet, powerfull, naughty, nice and everything in between. Above all it should be an intimate and sharing experience. If you can't replace the word "sex" with the meaningful usage of the phrase "make love" I would suggest waiting.

Can I get an "Amen" for Brother jahcs? How about a "Hallelujah?" How about a "Pass the ostrich feather!"

*ouch, quit hitting me Brian!* It was Lemmy who revived that ostrich thing, blame him.

Then maybe someone will mistake you for an ostrich and... *laughs evilly*

And on communicating with your prospective One and Only

Personally, I think one of the biggest problems here isn't sex, but ignorance of one's own feelings.  No matter how long you put off sex, if you're clueless when it comes to your own emotions you're bound to make some really bad choices.  In particular, I think limerence is a major contributor to bad relationship decisions.

As a follow up, adding honesty with one's self to understanding one's feelings: when you make a promise, how you keep it is a measure of your quality as a person. "Forsaking all others till death do us part" should, IMO, be required language in civil, as well as more churchy, wedding vows.

If you aren't ready to make that promise, stay away from the altar or JP's office.

Broken promises lead to anger, anger leads to hate, which leads to the Dark Side aka divorce court and worse.

Occhi