10-18-2022, 01:41 PM
Very sorry to hear this. I was given one of those diagnoses 3.5 years ago and managed to be one of the lucky ones, so things can improve but I definitely planned on what I'd do. Mine was more sudden so it was more "make sure the kiddos don't grow up to be awful people" rather than bucket list, because I still had to work to maintain health insurance and try to provide for the rest of the family. Just know that some of us who lurk and have read your posts for going on multiple decades are thinking about you.